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the call, there is an inherent danger in speaking with.
doing so. Namely, for many people, Additionally, I was recently told by a
receiving an anonymous call, and one rav who receives many shidduch
about a sensitive matter, can be rather research calls that when the caller does
unpalatable and disquieting. When not share their name, and even goes so
that is the case, any value gained far as blocking their caller ID, it wholly
through anonymity may be lost if the deprives him the opportunity of calling
interviewee is now put off, angry, or back in cases where he would like to
nervous. This can easily lead to a con- add to the previous conversation.
versation which does not provide useful Consequently, one must carefully
information, or, worse, it may become a measure the value and risks of remain-
poor or contentious conversation ing anonymous throughout a shidduch
which may then unfairly reflect nega- call before choosing to employ such a
tively on the single person being strategy.
inquired about. B’ezras Hashem, the ideas and TO TH
An extreme example may be a mid- guidelines provided throughout this
dle-aged man calling the house of a series will enable all those who are
newly-married couple asking to speak involved in shidduchim to more effica-
with the young wife, and refusing to ciously proceed through the stages of
give his name, which may not be appre- shidduch research. And they may, ulti-
ciated by the young man who answers mately, allow us to assist and partner
the phone. The same may be true when with Hakadosh Baruch Hu in being
calling to speak with a young single moishav yechidim baysah (settling indi- TO TH
woman and refusing to tell her parents viduals in a home).◆
who it is that wants to speak with their
daughter. Even in less extreme scenar- Hakaras hatov is once again due to
ios, many people just do not feel at Rabbi Tzodek Katz for providing the
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doing so. Namely, for many people, Additionally, I was recently told by a
receiving an anonymous call, and one rav who receives many shidduch
about a sensitive matter, can be rather research calls that when the caller does
unpalatable and disquieting. When not share their name, and even goes so
that is the case, any value gained far as blocking their caller ID, it wholly
through anonymity may be lost if the deprives him the opportunity of calling
interviewee is now put off, angry, or back in cases where he would like to
nervous. This can easily lead to a con- add to the previous conversation.
versation which does not provide useful Consequently, one must carefully
information, or, worse, it may become a measure the value and risks of remain-
poor or contentious conversation ing anonymous throughout a shidduch
which may then unfairly reflect nega- call before choosing to employ such a
tively on the single person being strategy.
inquired about. B’ezras Hashem, the ideas and TO TH
An extreme example may be a mid- guidelines provided throughout this
dle-aged man calling the house of a series will enable all those who are
newly-married couple asking to speak involved in shidduchim to more effica-
with the young wife, and refusing to ciously proceed through the stages of
give his name, which may not be appre- shidduch research. And they may, ulti-
ciated by the young man who answers mately, allow us to assist and partner
the phone. The same may be true when with Hakadosh Baruch Hu in being
calling to speak with a young single moishav yechidim baysah (settling indi- TO TH
woman and refusing to tell her parents viduals in a home).◆
who it is that wants to speak with their
daughter. Even in less extreme scenar- Hakaras hatov is once again due to
ios, many people just do not feel at Rabbi Tzodek Katz for providing the
ease Stop foot or legwithout knowing whom they are pain, usually in 1meat of the content for this series. or 2 visits.
FOOT AND LEG PAINHelp for foot or leg pain including “Growing Pains” inDcAhTEildDrUeEn.
Treating Difficulty Standing or Walking,
attributed to Arthritis, Spinal Stenosis,
in Adults & ChildrenNeuropathy, Poor Circulation or Poor Balance
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terxpeeartimenceen, Ithoafvefoalowta&ys floecguspeadionn, & p•aDiniffrfeieciunlbtoythwfeaeltk. Iinthga,nsktGa-nd fdoirnDgr.,Goldman and his
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icnracmlupidnignogr dsiuffricgueltryywoalfkitnhge), feoveontt(hosre p•aAinr. –thArlviitni,sBsayltimmoprteoms in the knees, hips
–obws—huenahDrlDpocgererekh..doraS)yS,rvt,utuoecstuafahuwrtaaahtnrdoleGltyboofvoGiltendhoiosmtehoirl(natedotsenlrrm.peobareaattcdmnwk,e)ou,ncvtsasisu,niitanbscle.lluydiinng
HoowrfobratucnkatethI faetelmtoahyavbe efournedlaatdeocdtotrowfhooocotuoldrnot only
drb••euiallFGtigeewirnvgbhioonorsfwgeuohtaaimnhnnsecybguwtenaioPedolrnegasnrtaiil.sbyanyilnemsgtpoptorfiomnbdsl.ea–mrpSeMatuhlisinaaaeltennfms,ysiaBnanpanyl1etdsimoproeaporcprlieiae2dlimhvsteaisstvhmioteidsss.oedf ,
H F Y F .CStSutauratrGtoGlodlmdmana,nD, PDMPM DiplomFateell,oAwmAermicearnicBaonaCrdoollfePgoedoifatFroicotSuarngderAynkle Surgeons
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