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The Shadchan answers: So she is not your “typical” young lady,
will try to discuss each issue in your but believe me, there are plenty like her.
interesting and difficult question, They are simply laid back and do not like
hoping to give you a new insight into
your dilemma. keeping up with the Joneses.
Every pot has a cover, and a “different” girl
I First of all, what comes across to
me in your letter is that you are will find a “different” boy.
proud of daughter #1 but seem to put
down daughter #2. You want to advo- You can see from that request that is wrong with that? I realize, of course,
cate for her but only remember the there are atypical boys as well. that in this day and age, one of the first
negatives. Could it be that your daugh- questions in shidduchim is what semi-
ter has absorbed your attitude and Is your daughter considered “out of nary did she go to? But years ago, girls
feels inferior to her sister? You say she the box” because she is in college and did not go to Israel. If you want to learn,
is “different” because she wears hats in is goal oriented? You do not mention if you can learn anywhere. Besides, when
the winter. So what? She wants to be she wants a learning or a working the right one comes along, it will not
warm. She is not fashion conscious? young man. You also emphasize that matter where she went to school. This
There are many girls who fit that bill. she went to seminary in America. What
She is moody and emotional? What girl
isn’t at one time or another?
So she is not your “typical” young
lady, but believe me, there are plenty
like her. They are simply laid back and
do not like keeping up with the
Joneses. Every pot has a cover, and a
“different” girl will find a “different” boy.
For instance, a young man once asked
me for a girl who doesn’t wear makeup
or jewelry. I would say that is “different.”
‘ “The Man with the Truck”
• Boys Suits Last chance before Yom Tov
• Men’s And Boy’s White Shirts
• Boys’ Pants For Yom Tov ONE DAY ONLY
• Hooded Men’s Rain Coats
• Twin Linen Sets BALTIMORE
• Men’s Pajamas, Cotton And Flannel
• And Much More! NOTE THURSDAY,
LOCATION
October 6
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(Rabbi Bergers Shul)
2929 Fallstaff Rd.
1:00pm- 8pm
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will try to discuss each issue in your but believe me, there are plenty like her.
interesting and difficult question, They are simply laid back and do not like
hoping to give you a new insight into
your dilemma. keeping up with the Joneses.
Every pot has a cover, and a “different” girl
I First of all, what comes across to
me in your letter is that you are will find a “different” boy.
proud of daughter #1 but seem to put
down daughter #2. You want to advo- You can see from that request that is wrong with that? I realize, of course,
cate for her but only remember the there are atypical boys as well. that in this day and age, one of the first
negatives. Could it be that your daugh- questions in shidduchim is what semi-
ter has absorbed your attitude and Is your daughter considered “out of nary did she go to? But years ago, girls
feels inferior to her sister? You say she the box” because she is in college and did not go to Israel. If you want to learn,
is “different” because she wears hats in is goal oriented? You do not mention if you can learn anywhere. Besides, when
the winter. So what? She wants to be she wants a learning or a working the right one comes along, it will not
warm. She is not fashion conscious? young man. You also emphasize that matter where she went to school. This
There are many girls who fit that bill. she went to seminary in America. What
She is moody and emotional? What girl
isn’t at one time or another?
So she is not your “typical” young
lady, but believe me, there are plenty
like her. They are simply laid back and
do not like keeping up with the
Joneses. Every pot has a cover, and a
“different” girl will find a “different” boy.
For instance, a young man once asked
me for a girl who doesn’t wear makeup
or jewelry. I would say that is “different.”
‘ “The Man with the Truck”
• Boys Suits Last chance before Yom Tov
• Men’s And Boy’s White Shirts
• Boys’ Pants For Yom Tov ONE DAY ONLY
• Hooded Men’s Rain Coats
• Twin Linen Sets BALTIMORE
• Men’s Pajamas, Cotton And Flannel
• And Much More! NOTE THURSDAY,
LOCATION
October 6
Kol Torah
(Rabbi Bergers Shul)
2929 Fallstaff Rd.
1:00pm- 8pm
For more info CALL: 718-853-5832 ©WWW
84 u www.wherewhatwhen.com u
