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bility. I think we have to be constantly
HOW DO YOU MENTSCH? thinking about more effective ways to
QUOTABLE QUOTES FROM THE use our shuls, our schools, our family
“BOY TO MENTSCH” DOCUMENTARY environment to reinforce these ideas
that we hold to be so important and
valuable to us.”
RABBI ZIFFER
“You need to show your sons how to
help out around the house. You need to
show them that you can be vulnerable.
You need to show them that if you’ve
“Your children ultimately grow up to “To be an emotional, soft man is gotten upset before, in a bad way, that
model the behavior that you show them. more masculine than a rough and you apologized.”
Do you want your daughters-in-law to tough man. It’s much more powerful RABBI BANDER
be treated nicely? Your children are to be able to express yourself and not
going to watch you and see how they to be explosive, which is derived from TO TH
“Opening communication lines at a very
treat your wife.” weakness, actually. It’s the weak per- young age creates space for the kids to
RABBI YAKOV HOROWITZ son who doesn’t express himself cor- feel safe and able to share anything
rectly.” they need to share.”
“You’re going from a yeshiva environment DR. BERGMAN DR. BERGMAN
– pretty exclusively a male environment –
to dating and then marriage…. It can be “All too often I think that we just “My hopes for boys are that they learn
TO THa bit of a culture shock for a young man assume that [boys] are going to learn through the pathways of the Torah to be
to be thrown into a world of marriage what they’re going to need to learn from sensitive and considerate, honest and
and sensitivity and emotional expression the street; they’re going to learn it from caring, and to know that that is being a
if he didn’t get it when he was younger.” their peers, from the media. That’s a ter- man.”
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HOW DO YOU MENTSCH? thinking about more effective ways to
QUOTABLE QUOTES FROM THE use our shuls, our schools, our family
“BOY TO MENTSCH” DOCUMENTARY environment to reinforce these ideas
that we hold to be so important and
valuable to us.”
RABBI ZIFFER
“You need to show your sons how to
help out around the house. You need to
show them that you can be vulnerable.
You need to show them that if you’ve
“Your children ultimately grow up to “To be an emotional, soft man is gotten upset before, in a bad way, that
model the behavior that you show them. more masculine than a rough and you apologized.”
Do you want your daughters-in-law to tough man. It’s much more powerful RABBI BANDER
be treated nicely? Your children are to be able to express yourself and not
going to watch you and see how they to be explosive, which is derived from TO TH
“Opening communication lines at a very
treat your wife.” weakness, actually. It’s the weak per- young age creates space for the kids to
RABBI YAKOV HOROWITZ son who doesn’t express himself cor- feel safe and able to share anything
rectly.” they need to share.”
“You’re going from a yeshiva environment DR. BERGMAN DR. BERGMAN
– pretty exclusively a male environment –
to dating and then marriage…. It can be “All too often I think that we just “My hopes for boys are that they learn
TO THa bit of a culture shock for a young man assume that [boys] are going to learn through the pathways of the Torah to be
to be thrown into a world of marriage what they’re going to need to learn from sensitive and considerate, honest and
and sensitivity and emotional expression the street; they’re going to learn it from caring, and to know that that is being a
if he didn’t get it when he was younger.” their peers, from the media. That’s a ter- man.”
Stop foot or legRABBI BANDER pain, usually in 1 orrible abrogation of our adult responsi- 2 visits. RABBI GOLDBERGER
FOOT AND LEG PAINHelp for foot or leg pain including “Growing Pains” inDcAhTEildDrUeEn.
Treating Difficulty Standing or Walking,
attributed to Arthritis, Spinal Stenosis,
in Adults & ChildrenNeuropathy, Poor Circulation or Poor Balance
IAsfoacpuodsiaotnrisnt wonith-souverrg3ic0aylears In•oaPmreealriepifpaitnhiesenigrthawtl.h..oNbhyeatuhdresoeevnpedareotffhothyoetSpfoyauimnr dfpoartyotswmI owsyaesa8r5s,%with DATE DUE
terxpeeartimenceen, Ithoafvefoalowta&ys floecguspeadionn, & p•aDiniffrfeieciunlbtoythwfeaeltk. Iinthga,nsktGa-nd fdoirnDgr.,Goldman and his
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icnracmlupidnignogr dsiuffricgueltryywoalfkitnhge), feoveontt(hosre p•aAinr. –thArlviitni,sBsayltimmoprteoms in the knees, hips
o–bws—huenahDrlDpocgererekh..doraS)yS,rvt,utuoecstuafahuwrtaaahtnrdoleGltyboofvoGiltendhoiosmtehoirl(natedotsenlrrm.peobareaattcdmnwk,e)ou,ncvtsasisu,niitanbscle.lluydiinng
HoowrfobratucnkatethI faetelmtoahyavbe efournedlaatdeocdtotrowfhooocotuoldrnot only
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H F Y F .CStSutauratrGtoGlodlmdmana,nD, PDMPM DiplomFateell,oAwmAermicearnicBaonaCrdoollfePgoedoifatFroicotSuarngderAynkle Surgeons
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41401-02-3253-52-3243545
HelpFCoornsYeorvuatrivFeeCaerte.oCfothme Foot, Ankle, and Leg.
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