Wartime Pesach
As I wrote last year, Pesach is very different here in Israel. The war brought us many challenges, and I will try and give you my perspective from the ground. During the early days of the war, no one was allowed outside due to the constant flow of missiles from Iran. In conjunction with the Chief Rabbinate of Israel, there were no minyanim allowed due to pikuach nefesh. Shuls were shuttered, and any other sort of gatherings were not allowed. After about seven to ten days, Home Front command allowed gatherings of 50 people, so neighborhoods such as ours had a minyan in an underground parking garage, in our case because of its proximity to a shelter.
Originally, my wife and I were planning on visiting my mother in Baltimore in early March on the way to our grandson’s bar-mitzva in New Jersey a couple weeks later. We were hoping to spend time with our children in the States as well as with my siblings and friends, whom we miss very much. But Hashem had other plans. Our flight to America was cancelled on numerous occasions, and by the time we got a flight to leave 10 days later, our travel became extremely problematic. One of the personal casualties of this war was both of us having to watch our grandson’s bar mitzva siyum via Zoom.
Once shuls were allowed to re-open for the chag, we were limited to 50 people davening in the shul’s shelter. Friday, April 10th, was the first day since late February that we were able to have a minyan with full participation in shul. During the restricted days, minyanim were done on a first-come-first-served basis sign-up sheet. My wife, feeling she did not have an obligation to daven with a minyan – even though she does so every week – felt that signing up was not appropriate if it took away space from someone who was obligated to daven. She settled for Yizkor at home.





