Random Thoughts Post-Pesach 2025


by Sharmaine Palmer

 Last year, as soon as the clean-up-from-Pesach marathon was over, I jotted down some informal comments on how it went. I took out these notes recently to help me with this year’s Yom Tov. Why am I thinking of Pesach now, with mountains of snow still clinging stubbornly to my lawn? Well, it’s never too early to think Pesach. As soon as the masks and dreidels disappear into warehouse heaven, Pesach foods come out and fill up those aisles. I want to be ready.

“Incredible” Recipes

At the top of my list this year is: Do not try recipes marked incredible,” “you won’t believe it’s not chometz, and the best matza balls … or whatever. Avoid these. Use tried and trusted recipes! Also avoid the desserts with the most beautiful photos. My new Pesach philosophy is, the nicer the photo, the worse the dessert comes out. Even the birds and squirrels would not eat some of my past disastrous attempts.

I wonder whether those who submit these Pesach recipes buy tons of Pesach products, such as margarine, imitation soy sauce, oil, confectioner’s sugar, etc., to use in creating their recipes during the year. (Every year I hope the margarine tastes better, but so far, it’s the same old stick of “lard”; my sister calls it axle grease.) Or do they use regular, easy-to-get, and much better quality (and tastier!) ingredients available year-round?

Shopping for Pesach

The next thought in my notes is, don’t overbuy. It’s only eight days, after all, yet shoppers fill their carts to the brim in several shopping sessions. For instance, it ordinarily takes weeks for my family to use one bottle of salad dressing, so why did I buy four for Pesach? The only dish I make using matza meal is kneidlach, which we eat maybe once during Pesach, so why did I buy three boxes?

Next, what people love and consume with gusto during the first days may not be consumed the last days. I did not have enough orange juice the first days, so I bought extra for the last days. Those cartons were barely touched. At least they froze well!

Buy more shmura matza; we had just about enough last year. Make less charoses; everyone tells me to make more, more, and more, but I just throw out more, more, and more.

On the other hand, I will be buying more gefilte fish this year, about six loaves. I’ll buy more kid’s yogurts and fewer of the adult version.

My notes say to check my Pesach closet immediately after the holiday is over for spices, oils, soup powder, etc., and use them up before going out to buy more during the year. But some people I know save staples from the last Pesach, so they don’t have to buy them a year later. (Think salt, sugar, cocoa powder, dish soap, toothpaste, scrubbing pads, foil pans, etc.)

Memo to myself: “Don’t buy any macaroons.” Tradition, tradition, and all that, but nope; this year, I’ll leave that item on the shelf in the store. And every year, I have hopes that some chewing gum and hard candy will find themselves on the Pesach shelves. We’ll see.

Pesach Miscellanea

Another important bullet for this year: In addition to checking the hechsher and salt content as I always do, I must remember to check the ingredients. I wondered why the apricot preserves were tasteless and found that the first three ingredients were sugar, apple purée, and glucose! No hint of any apricot. Why call it apricot, then?

My daughter got married a number of years ago around Purim time. She received a few crock pots and gave me one to use on Pesach. All these years later, my Pesach cholent still does not amount to much of anything. I have decided that this year, I’ll give up attempting to make cholent. Really! No new never-fail-recipes-that-we-eat year-round. Just don’t make it! I’ll stick with using the crock pot for meat, soups, and chicken.

I have got to remind myself that I don’t have to wait for the day before Pesach to buy or check toiletries, medications, etc.; I can do this well before Pesach and avoid the crazy rush to many stores to find appropriate products. Menus can also be compiled weeks before, together with shopping lists.

Somehow my kiddush cups disappeared last year, but the tablecloths multiplied. Still trying to figure this one out!

The yartzheit candles must have been improved because, last year, the two-days ones lasted more than two days! This year is a three-day Yom Tov (Thursday, Friday, and Shabbos), so I must not forget to buy three-day yahrzeit candles.

Finally, I remind myself to keep this year’s menus, as I have for years. Some of my old menus have the guests’ names next to the Yom Tov or Shabbos meals. They are such fun to read as well as giving me ideas for this year’s menu. I’ll file this year’s menus at the back of my Pesach binder together with this note. I’ll just have to remember to read them!

Pesach is still such a special Yom Tov that I really love and enjoy. I have wonderful memories of Pesach in South Africa as a child and for those few years when I lived in Eretz Yisrael, and b”H, the many ones we have had the zechus to have every year. Wishing everyone a chag kasher v’sameach

 

 

 

 

  

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