Flexible Summer Fun


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by C. M.

 

Writing an article on summer activities this year seemed daunting. Flipping through last year’s article on a similar topic, I realized, yet again, how drastically the world has changed. And yes, for many parents, the COVID lockdown has been challenging, even overwhelming, but as I spoke to mothers, kids, and companies, I was amazed to hear all of them describe what they’ve been doing the past few months – and their plans for the summer – with enthusiasm, laughter, and acceptance. The creativity kept flowing; I heard their ideas of keeping children engaged, entertained, and stimulated, and I couldn’t help but smile. During these times, we’re all tapping into our creativity, trying to transform the difficulties into something inspiring, something life-changing – in a good way. There’s no way to live through this pandemic and not tilt our perspectives in a totally different direction. So enjoy these ideas, and when the going gets rough, remember that, if there’s one thing we learned from Corona, it’s that Hashem is the One running this world. All we have to do is our best. 

Getting Outdoors…on a Trail

With school out, and tentative structure of Zoom and phone conferences gone, months of unstructured time loom ahead. While a few camps may open, many children will be at home. How to entertain them?

      With the sunshine-filled days of summer upon us, kids’ usual delight in the outdoors has been considerably amplified. Biking! Scootering! Hiking! Bracha Dinovitz, whose kids range from three-and-a-half to 13 years old, clues us into her family’s favorite trails:

The BWI Trail is a paved path located right near the airport, providing excitement overhead and perfect biking conditions below. “Usually planes are flying right over the field,” says Bracha, “Lately time there weren’t so many because fewer people are flying.” There’s also a playground there, but the path alone satisfied my energetic kids’ needs.” 

Cross Country/Greenspring Trail: A new wooden bridge at the corner of Cross Country and Greenspring marks the beginning of a hiking/biking trail. “We enjoyed that trail, which goes all the way down to Mt. Washington,” says Mrs. Dinovitz, and of course, it gave the kids a change of scenery just minutes from home. 

…In Your Backyard

Because their plans are in flux, the Blooms*, a lively family with children ranging from four to 19, are planning some fun activities in case the kids end up staying home. Mrs. Bloom has been buying various water-play items for the backyard, such as water balloons, a sprinkler, and a kiddy pool because water is so refreshing and fun and can keep the kids busy for hours. Mrs. Bloom notes that water balloons can be really messy, but she found a way to make “water bombs” out of sponges, to create the same effect without the mess. 

Akiva and Bayla Berkowitz recently invested in a chicken coop. “We have three chickens and a bunch of chicks,” their son, 12-year-old Dovid, informs me. These fuzzy friends prove friendly and fun, and they’ll even lay eggs very soon. Dovid admits that his younger brother takes care of them, and “when they make a mess, they’re not so fun.” Though not for everyone, pets keep kids entertained for hours with their quirky habits and are even proven to be therapeutic.

...At a Campground

Want to get away from it all? Not comfortable going to a hotel? Camping is the perfect alternative! The Berkowitzes embarked on a camping adventure last week at Patapsco State Park for a night with their three children, borrowing two tents from Eli Pollock’s camping gemach. “It was fun!” Dovid enthuses. He and his brother Netanel brought their bikes. “We biked around the camp grounds, and we made a bonfire. We also planned to go hiking, but we didn’t end up doing that.”

Arts ’n Crafts

Rainy day? Even if it’s not raining, youthful exuberance breeds creativity, and there’s always time for that perfect art project. “We ordered Shrinky Dink plastic from Amazon, and we had a lot of fun with that!” says Mrs. Dinovitz. “The kids traced photos onto the clear plastic with permanent markers. Then we baked it in the oven. It hardened and shrank, which smoothed out the imperfections, creating a cool piece of art.” The Shrinky Dink can be made into a keychain, a necklace, or just a colorful decoration!

Want to brighten up the outside of your house? Order some waterproof pool noodles, twist them into shapes, and hang them up as decorations, Mrs. Dinovitz suggests. Or get plastic “Pesach countertops,” which are also waterproof, and place tape diagonally across them, coloring between the tape to create a mosaic effect. The Dinovitzes made a “We love you Bubby and Zaidy” sign. What a great way to keep the kids entertained and give Bubby and Zaidy some nachas!

Duct tape is another craft supply that offers countless opportunities and is just plain fun, whether you use it to stick your lunch sign to the passenger window of your car or make a sculpture. Duct tape is available in a rainbow of colors. What about sculpting some roses on the tail end of a pen? Building a miniature city? Or, as Mrs. Dinovitz advises, give the kids a generous amount of tape and let them use that staggering pile of Amazon cardboard boxes to build their very own clubhouse! 

Mrs. Dinovitz and her children also created a newsletter out of the many cute sayings and snapshots about Corona that have rocketed around the world through WhatsApp, email, and the like. Mrs. Dinovitz screen-shot the cute sayings she found, printed them out, and pasted them into an entertaining “newsletter.” This can be done as a family, or it is a perfect way to keep the neighborhood kids connected and busy, she says. The contents can comprise articles from other kids, interviews of people that fascinate you, and family or neighborhood news. You can even have an art contest. Then deliver your masterpiece to your friends and family, whether through email or snail mail.

Camp Mommy

Are you planning on doing Camp Mommy? Sound daunting? Mrs. Bloom suggests choosing a theme. “It’s easier to come up with activities when you have a theme,” she explains. “Since we’re stuck at home, our theme is world travel. We can pretend we are traveling around the world.” Projects can incorporate a country’s culture. For instance, a baking activity can accentuate that country’s cuisine. Each child creates his or her own passport and colors in a flag for the country the family is currently visiting. For Israel, offers Mrs. Bloom as an example, you can pretend to fly on a plane and choose a video from TorahLive.com for the ride’s entertainment. You can play Bingo with Hebrew numbers, play Simon Says in Hebrew, make water bottle carriers out of duct tape, and watch a virtual tour of the Old City

“I don’t want to do so much screen time,” adds Mrs. Bloom. It’s a topic many of us are struggling with when so many activities are internet bases and typical trips have been cancelled. “But I would incorporate it in an educational way,” she continues. Mrs. Bloom has also been stocking up on art supplies and saving recyclables. “I want my kids to have a contest using a bunch of egg cartons, tissue boxes, and paper towel rolls. The challenge is to build a town out of those materials and see what they come up with.” What better time than now to give the kids a chance to shine and to channel their creativity in a fun, positive, relationship-building project?

All camps include trips, right? “Fruit picking at Baugher’s and Larryland Farm is open,” notes Mrs. Bloom, “though instead of tractor rides, customers have to use their own cars, and each family gets its own row of bushes/trees to pick.” Call Baugher’s hotline at 410-857-0111 for more information. 

Mrs. Singer*, a Camp Mommy maven, shares some of her tips and tricks as well as the details that will change this coming summer. “Usually we go swimming every day in pools open to the public,” she says. “This year that may not be not possible, although many pools are adapting their schedules and regulations in response to the pandemic. But,” Mrs. Singer tells me, “you can rent a private pool every once in a while, giving the kids some wholesome fun coupled with refreshing exercise. “Anticipation is a huge part of it,” explains Mrs. Singer. “That’s why I rent the pool for 4:00 in the afternoon, so the kids are looking forward to something the whole day.”

Mrs. Singer’s kids run the gamut of ages, boys and girls ranging from 13 to just shy of a year. How to keep all the kids engaged in the same activity? The Singers go to a park. While the little kids are happy just seeing a shiny pebble, the older children need more sophisticated entertainment. “Combine it with a game,” advises Mrs. Singer. “Have the kids bring a pen and paper, and they then have to find something that starts with every letter of the alphabet.”

Mrs. Singer also recommends baking, involving the kids whenever possible. “Let the kids deliberate over the shiny sprinkles, how the sprinkles will match the fondant.” Buy fondant and, together with the kids, decide how you are going to decorate the cupcake. This takes time, and it is ideal for a wide range of ages and personalities. “Some kids will smush the fondant, and others will spend a while sculpting fancy and intricate designs.” At the end of the day, they will all have a yummy cupcake they made all by themselves!

How about packing food and having a picnic in the park? “Do things outdoors and add a little twist to make them more exciting,” advises Mrs. Singer. Echoing Mrs. Bloom’s tip, Mrs. Singer suggests having a theme and telling the kids to make up a cheer to go along with it. A huge chunk of the fun and excitement is intertwined with the hype and the cheers that go with it. An experience is so much more what you make of it than the objective circumstance. “There’s ‘make your own fun’ and ‘natural fun,’” explains Mrs. Singer. “And natural fun – something like going to an amusement park – isn’t necessarily more fun and can pale in comparison to ‘make your own fun’ activities, such as parks, when the kids get involved and excited.” There are countless ways to inject excitement in the most mundane circumstance; as they say, it’s all about the attitude. 

The biggest difference this year, according to Mrs. Singer is that “the kids don’t have expectations.” Mrs. Singer compares this Chol Hamoed Pesach to last. “Because the kids understood that the usual trips were impossible, they weren’t disappointed. After being forced to stay home for months, people can have fun on a walk around the block.”

So You Need a Vacation

Are people even going on vacation this year? Actually, Florida, always a hot-spot vacation area, seems to be a prime destination for many frum families looking to go away after months of quarantine. “We rented a house with a pool near a few shuls,” Mrs. Miller*, a Baltimore mother of five tells me. “We are planning to drive down beginning in the early morning, hoping to arrive Mincha/Maariv time.” The family is planning a week of fun and sunshine, reveling in the relaxed atmosphere and change of scenery. They hope to take full advantage of their private pool, which promises many hours of refreshing entertainment. 

The Stein* family, by contrast, is planning a moving vacation: “We needed to do something!” says Mrs. Stein. After weeks spent huddled at home, many of us can relate to this cabin fever sentiment. “My husband usually travels for work, and he hasn’t been anywhere in a very long time. As things started opening up, he said we have to go somewhere.” But where? wondered the Baltimore mother of three. The family wasn’t keen on hotel stays, so the options weren’t very many. Then, Mrs. S. exclaims, “We decided to do an RV trip! That would be so fun!” After some deliberation, the family decided to fly to Denver, rent an RV from there, and travel throughout the Midwest for the next 10 days. “We have a whole bunch of parks lined up,” says Mrs. Stein, explaining their itinerary. An RV will help the family skirt hotels, rest stops, and the like, and it provides its very own sense of adventure, and for Shabbos, they will rent an Airbnb in the middle of Idaho. Denver is definitely a change of scenery, and the gorgeous Rocky Mountains are sure to be a beautiful vacation spot. “It’s sure to be an adventure!” concludes Mrs. Stein. I can hear the excitement in her voice. I’m sure it will be!

Whatever plans you have up your sleeve for this summer, twists and turns, schedule tweaks, and last-minute changes are bound to happen. So revel in the sunshine and capture the memories of this unique year – because this summer, we’re making history!

 


 

Online: Still On!

 

No social contact does not mean no fun! Here are some exciting activities to engage and teach children despite, or perhaps because of, the current reality. 

 

Public Libraries

The libraries remain closed, but they have started a curbside pickup service for books and other library materials. (Digital materials are available, as usual.) Enoch Pratt library will even mail books to you! Pratt has the Read to Reef program for children fifth grade and younger, in which they can earn a free trip to the National Aquarium by reading five aquatic books. Similarly, the Summer Reading Challenge at Baltimore County Library will be conducted online this year. Registration is required, and prizes will be awarded. There are also virtual events for all ages at the County library, which are posted on the website. Contact: www.bcpl.info. or www.prattlibrary.org.

 

Incredible Science Online Camp

We’ve come to terms with virtual school; why not virtual camp? The Incredible Science Online Camp is geared to kids ages 7 to 13. It runs every day from 5 to 6 p.m. It takes place on Zoom, and sessions are also recorded. In addition to a live science show, campers receive a special box bursting with cool science experiments and gadgets to keep them entertained for hours. The Incredible Science Online Camp is $299. July session: June 29 to July 24. August session: August 3 to August 28. Limited spots remain. Contact: 917-783-7962; info@incrediblesciencecamp.com; www.incrediblesciencecamp.com

 

Bakebox

Your kids like to bake, but it entails so much preparation and mess. Bakebox offers several “baking subscriptions” for kids age four-plus. When kids receive a Bakebox, addressed to them, all they have to do is open it, take out pre-measured, neatly-packed ingredients, and get to work! It’s fun, delicious, and easy – with hardly any clean-up. Contact: orders@kosherbakeboxes.com; www.bakeboxforkids.com

 

Let’s Art It!

Pessy of Let’s Art It! offers classes for kids, teens, and adults. Students receive a box filled with art supplies and access to recorded classes. Pessy also offers personal support. Skills or past experience are not required, and have no bearing on students’ success. In Pessy’s words, “Everyone can be an artist!” Pessy considers art to be a stress reliever and a way to gain self-confidence and a healthy self-esteem during this time. “Don’t look for perfection,” she says. “Focus on the process and the enjoyment within.” Contact: pessy@letsartit.com; www.letsartit.com
 

The Sew Pro

Tzirel Leah Feinroth of the Sew Pro offers online sewing classes for teens and adults. Trained at the Fashion Institute of Technology and Parsons School of Design in New York, Mrs. Feinroth has 12 years of experience in custom sewing as well as teaching over 1,500 students in Lakewood. After signing up ($199 to $489), students receive a box filled with all the sewing supplies and fabric needed for the course. They then watch clear videos of the process, with the option of contacting Tzirel Leah when questions arise. “Videos are not a bedi’eved,” Tzirel Leah tells me. “They’re not worse than in-person, and you can watch them on your own time.” The Sew Pro gives girls skills they can use for life – and the most important part? “The girls love it!” Contact: 732-664-6954; contact@thesewpro.com; www.thesewpro.com

 

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