All About Alcohol and More : Brothers and Sisters



by Jakub Lichterman and Michael Kidorf, Ph.D.

 

Many traits run in families, and unfortunately, substance use is one of them. Several studies show that parents impact the substance use of their children through genetic transmission, parenting styles, and their own substance use habits. This model conforms to a traditional “top down” vertical approach to understanding family problems. But perhaps there is also an overlooked horizontal process that occurs within families, in which siblings impact each other’s substance use, independent of the influence of their parents.

It makes complete sense that siblings might influence each other’s tendencies to use substances. Teenagers spend more time with their siblings than with their parents. In general, young people are susceptible to the influence of others, unlike adults who are often set in their ways. Younger siblings, for example, often view their older siblings as role models and inherit many interests from them. They might share friends, music tastes, hobbies, or pretty much anything else. It is not hard to imagine a younger sibling choosing to “experiment” with substances that his or her older sibling has already used.

It turns out that I am not the first person to ask if teenage siblings transmit substance use to each other. There is plenty of recent research on the subject. It appears that the question is studied in at least two ways. The first is survey sampling, which means that teens and their families’ complete surveys or interviews at one time point or across months or years. This methodology provides information on how often and how much family members use substances, as well as their thoughts and intentions, although people may not always complete surveys truthfully or accurately.

A more ambitious approach evaluates large healthcare databases to examine familial trends in substance use over time. These studies rely on formal diagnoses to indicate substance use problems but are less sensitive to lower rates of use that are more common among teenagers. In other words, database studies may underestimate the problem.

According to the research, there is a strong connection between the substance use of siblings, and statistical models show that older siblings have a big effect on younger sibling use. A recent large-scale study of healthcare databases in Canada shows that adolescents are 3.7 times more likely to have a substance use disorder if both parents have a disorder, and 3.9 times more likely if their older sibling has a disorder. These are considered large effects. Other studies have reported similar findings: Adolescents are highly susceptible to using alcohol and drugs based on the substance use of an older sibling, even after controlling for (minimizing the influence of) the substance use of their parents. Interestingly, there is also some evidence that younger siblings who use substances can influence an older sibling towards more substance use.

There remains the question of how siblings impact each other, which has also been subject to investigation. As might be expected, the sibling connection is stronger for same-gender siblings. It is also stronger for identical twins over fraternal twins, suggesting a significant genetic component. Research studying environmental links to sibling influence have focused on how a brother or sister can increase access to substances (directly or through mutual friends), demystify drug use experiences and sometimes glorify drug effects, and create positive expectations about the effects of substances. Putting this together, siblings can make teenage substance use seem more acceptable by highlighting positive effects and minimizing negative effects. It is possible to consider sibling influence as a type of family peer pressure!

As I was writing this article, I thought of another pathway of family substance abuse. Perhaps there are times when the behavior of a child or teenager somehow instigates more substance use in the parents, literally “driving them to drink.” The idea may not be far-fetched. Parenthood is quite stressful, and to the extent that substance use is helpful in reducing stress, it may be perceived as a possible (albeit flawed) solution. This may occur if one or more of the children is difficult or has behavior problems or, perhaps, chooses a life path that is different from the parents. They might even attempt to justify their use and suggest that it helps to make them better parents by reducing stress or allowing them to be calmer when addressing misbehavior. If I were starting graduate school, this might be an area of research that I would like to pursue. Now I just need to finish high school.

Looking at the strong connections between family member substance use, it is clear how complicated it all is. Within families, there are multiple factors colliding with each other to directly or indirectly affect substance use. At the very least, helping teenagers address a substance problem early on seems important to reducing the chances that substance use, and the problems that come with it, do not consume the entire household. Perhaps creating more educational programs for schools has the best chance to reach the most teenagers. There may even be ways to help abstinent teenagers be more of a positive influence on their siblings. Learning about these studies also increases my appreciation of individual and family therapists who need to consider how substance use impacts the entire family system.

 

Jakub Lichterman is a senior at Beth Tfiloh and wrote this article as part of his Spring internship.

Michael Kidorf is a clinical psychologist and Associate Professor at Johns Hopkins University

 

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