Articles by Jill Moroson

Healthy Gut, Healthy Child


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We are in the midst of an epidemic that is hurting our children but that no one seems to be talking about. It’s not caused by a virus, bite, or bacteria. It’s caused by food. The standard American diet, aptly known as SAD, is a diet filled with sugar, seed oils (foreign to the human body), and refined carbohydrates, all packaged in an abundance of highly processed concoctions. This diet is the mainstay of what most American children eat. And it’s making them sick.

Today, 20% of American children are obese or overweight, a number projected to reach 30% by 2030. Ten percent of children aged two-to-five are already fat. The incidence of Type II diabetes and ”pre-diabetes” has risen sharply in children, and 25% have fatty liver disease, a condition previously associated with alcoholics and unheard of in children pre-1980. It’s a new phenomenon in medical literature called non-alcoholic fatty liver disease (NAFLD).


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Money and Dating


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A good friend of mine in New York took a chance and went on a date with someone I suggested but barely knew. He said he called her, and they had a nice conversation. When they met, he asked her where she wanted to have lunch. She named an expensive restaurant (of which there are many in NYC), at which point he had no choice but to acquiesce. They had lunch. He got the bill. She didn’t offer to share it. And $150 later, he knew he was done. When we spoke later, he laughed and said that this had been the most expensive dating lesson, which he wasn’t going to repeat.


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Getting your Financial House in Order


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The situation described in the letter you printed from Deep in the Hole two issues ago (Dec. 2019 Vol. 35 Issue 5) is indeed “heartrending.” While it might seem impossible to pull this gentleman out of his financial hole, we should thank him for his honest portrayal. His story serves as an excellent cautionary tale for young people.

For the first time in U.S. history, it is believed, the present generation of young adults will not fare as well financially as their parents did. This means that young people need to be especially conscientious about their financial planning as well as about their ideas and values regarding money. (It’s an important topic for shidduchim as wellSee sidebar.) We are fortunate to have an organization like Mesila to help those looking for financial guidance. It is precisely because Orthodox families incur additional expenses for food, education, and more that it is incumbent on them to be financially savvy. That includes Jewish educators preparing the next generation to be able to afford the demands of Orthodox living.


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Poor Me


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I remember the scene well. We are about eight or nine years old, getting ready to go out for recess or some other enjoyable activity. “David” rushes to the teacher and in an excited burst asks: “Can Johnny and me be first in line?”

The teacher’s finger rises. She pauses. She pronounces: “Can Johnny and – I – be first in line?” 

There is a hush as the excitement drains from David’s face, and from the faces of the million other Davids and Susans who experienced the very same reprimand.


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To Go or Not to Go – Is College Really Necessary?


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Given the ever increasing cost of college and the high unemployment (or underemployment) rate of new grads – not to mention the anti-Israel and anti-free speech activities occurring on college campuses – young people and their parents are beginning to ask, is college really necessary?

The days of a college degree as an automatic ticket to a good job are over. The job potential of the liberal arts – the soft majors like sociology, psychology, history, and philosophy – is mostly a thing of the past (at least for now). Rather, the 21st century economy is one where burgeoning industries like healthcare and energy are changing at a pace we haven’t yet absorbed, and fields such as engineering, business, and technology are the new ticket to vocational success.

The question young people should be asking themselves as they plan their careers is not whether to go to college but, rather, what does our economy look like, and how am I making myself marketable to enter it?


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